Posted: January 7th, 2022
Relationships are complicated! Talk about an understatement, and this applies not only to romantic attachments but also to family and friendships, even those with coworkers or neighbors who we might not feel very close to. Given that relationships are hard, why do we bother?
One of the tenets of Zen Buddhism is that one should try to divest themselves of attachments (Links to an external site.) (to things like property, money and people) because attachment can lead to suffering. But don’t we have a need to belong and connect? This week, let’s focus on this idea and share our thoughts.
For this week’s discussion post, respond to the following:
Please note: I am not asking you to share personal, private details from your own relationships. Rather, take some time to reflect on the idea of having/not having relationships in terms of the benefits and costs of both perspectives.